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How to Propose “Certified Dating and Relationship Expert, Jason Weberman, CPCC of NorthStarCoaching.com, offers the following tips split into two categories: Introverts and Extroverts
What to do When He Won’t Call You His Girlfriend “Giving the male perspective as to why this happens is Jason Weberman, CPCC, certified dating and relationship expert. First, he said, is to consider how long you’ve been dating. If …
5 Resolutions That Can Help You Find “The One” “It means that if there is an area of your life that is not working, then you need to make a resolution to restore balance in that area said dating expert, Jason Weberman …
“The 10 Alternatives to the term “Work-Life Balance” “Work is just one aspect of your life and by using the term ‘work-life’, you end up putting the word ‘work’ before ‘life’”. – Jason Weberman, dating and relationship expert
Why Relationships Don’t Last Jason Weberman, a certified dating and relationship coach in New York City, “People get distracted by what I like to call ‘shiny objects’ such as sexual attraction and other surface attractions when they should really be …
Hey Jason, I’m 27 and living in New York City. My girlfriend and I have been going out for four months. She’s always complaining about how her mother always makes her feel like crap by constantly criticizing. A few weeks …
That’s right, all men out there that are in relationships who do not want to have sex… DO NOT DO THE DISHES!!! There is a direct correlation to doing housework and getting laid. You don’t believe me? Go ahead, I …
As cave people our needs were simple. We slept, hunted, ate, pooped and had sex (not necessarily in that order). Life wasn’t too confusing. Sexual attraction was an innate instinct, imperative for the survival and propagation of our species. We …
If you’ve been “out there” for a while then you probably realized how frustrating the dating world can be. There are an overwhelming amount of articles and books that tell you how you should go about dating, and you’ve even tried some of these rules out. But you’re still alone. You might have even looked to romantic films to give you a few pearls of wisdom. Yet with all of this advice floating around, you’re still single and wondering how anyone ever finds the person they are meant to be with.
Here are some of the ridiculous dating rules that I’ve collected over the years from clients:
I can go on and on and list tons of rules that people have invented and professed as the keys to finding and keeping a man, but the truth is there is no universal handbook with strict guidelines that will effectively lead you through the murky waters of dating. These rules are simply about playing mind games and if you are playing games with him, you are guaranteed that he will play some games of his own with you. Relationships are about being honest and open. If you want to build a solid foundation for everlasting love, you need to stop playing games and get real.
You are not a drone; you are a complex human with your own unique set of values. So wouldn’t it make sense that you should create your own rules based on your own values to guide you to the right man?
The answers to the following questions should help you come up with a few personal dating rules that make sense for you: