Ask Coach Jason

Hey Jason!

I’ve been with my boyfriend for a few months now. Everything was going great until his ex-girlfriend texted him telling him she wanted to “reconnect”. Ever since then he’s been acting whacky and saying stuff like he don’t want to be in a relationship. He says he loves me, but he don’t want to be tied down. I cried for hours when he told me that. He said he didn’t wanna hurt me, but he says he feels like he’s in jail. He says he still wants to see me, but not like a girlfriend/boyfriend thing. I love him and I want to be with him. How do I change his mind?

ANSWER

Let me translate for you…he still wants to have sex with you and he also wants to have sex with other women. You are being used! Delete his number from your phone and move on.

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