Dear Coach Jason,

I am on a popular television show, so I am constantly in the public eye. I have been looking for a man for as long as I can remember. Believe it or not, but fame has actually made it more difficult. Before I got on the show I used to get hit on all the time. It’s now a very rare occurrence. I’m not sure why but maybe it’s because they are intimidated.

I cannot go on a dating site and post a profile. I cannot go to singles events like a normal person. Sometimes I meet a man at charity or industry events, but the truth is I find most of these people to be fake and boring. I want someone who will support me in my career and love me for me, not my fame. How can I do that if I can’t go to the places or do the normal things that most people do to find love?

ANSWER

I suggest you look for a matchmaker who is known to work with celebrities and high profile individuals. Some of them work exclusively with people of a certain income level or social status. Since you aren’t thrilled with industry people, find out if the matchmaking company also works with non-celebrities.

When signing up for any service you should be comfortable with and feel that your  potential matchmaker really understands you. A good matchmaker will spend a lot of time getting to know you by asking important questions about who you really are and what you need in a relationship. They will dig deep and help you unearth any obstacles that have been standing in your way. Before identifying yourself I suggest you give the company a call to find out about their anonymity policy and protocol.

You should also turn to your friends and family who knew you prior to your success. Let them know you are interested in meeting someone and see if they have a match for you. Before doing that you need to have complete clarity as to the type of man you want as a companion. The laws of attraction will only work when you are crystal clear about what you want and you must speak your desires out loud to the universe. By sharing with your friends and family your desire to have a supportive and genuine man in your life you will be speaking to the universe through them. Believe it or not, just by writing to me you have already set the wheels in motion and are on your way to finding true love!