1)      They’re Not Professionals
You’re close with your friends. They’ve been with you through thick and thin. However they do not have the training or knowledge you need when it comes to the matters of your heart. Taking advice from a non-professional can wreak havoc on your life. If you had a strange rash growing on your body would you consult your friend or a dermatologist?

2)      They Don’t Know What’s Best For You
“You know what you need to do…” These words are uttered by almost every best friend who thinks they know best. Although its good to explore your next steps, only you have that information tucked away inside. You just need to learn how to access and listen to your inner voice.

3)      They Love You and Are Biased
Your friends love you and when they see you distraught after a break up they want to see you feeling better. But their need to have you feel better can lead to some wacky and inappropriate suggestions such as, “You need to forget about him and go out and party with some hotties!” In your desperate attempt to feel better, you may be susceptible to silly advice that could potentially make you feel worse.

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